And today will be the second time in my life washing my car. IT’S NOT EVEN THE SAME CAR ANYMORE. Send help. Any advice?

Also I’m like 5' 6 and I’m washing a huge SUV and I can’t find a step ladder in my house right now.

UPDATE (After I washed it.):

It honestly looks exactly the same except the wheels don’t have any brake dust on it anymore. I couldn’t even reach the center of the windshield to wipe it dry while on the running boards.