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How ya been, Oppo?

How ya been? Starting around December 21, I took a break from nearly all media and internet, other than the necessary emails, weather forecasts, and occasional TV watching. I wanted to focus on my family as much as possible over the holiday break, and while it was nice to do that, I’m exhausted. But maybe mentally refreshed?

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Here are some highlights from the past 12-ish days:

  • Took the kids skating, once on the lake, once at a rink; they’re finally actually skating less than they are falling
  • Also went skiing with the kids, our default winter activity
  • Visited in-laws in a new house they’re building nearer to the mountains, it’s beautiful!
  • Put the roof box on the Volvo (above) and forgot to close the sunroof, it snowed about 3" of wet snow and then rained overnight. Oops.
  • Ate and drank too much, now repenting
  • Accomplished almost nothing on my to-do list
  • Went out to dinner one night with just my wife, and we were home by 8:00 (see next bullet point)
  • Went to bed every night completely and utterly exhausted from being with the kids all day, every day. Man, I love them, but they are exhausting.

I have to say it was nice to be away from the world of social media and the current US news cycle for a bit. I like to be informed, but I am so disheartened by.... well let’s just be honest, our President. I find it hard not to fall down the rabbit hole of ‘what horrible / irrational / completely false / racist / ignorant / childish thing did he do today?’ And that’s not healthy. I just need to have faith that the wheels of democracy and justice are grinding ever forward. I listen to a great podcast called The Daily, and I read the news here and there. It’s just too easy to keep digging!


I’m not one to make grand New Year’s Resolutions but I will say I feel energized to step back a little from the news and put more focus on the things that really matter to me, personally, in my day-to-day life. I feel stretched very thin this time of year and if nothing else I feel empowered to take a fresh look at my priorities so I don’t lose my mind.

Before I go too deep here, I’ll just leave it at that.

How has Oppo been??

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